
Media
Named one of Fashion Journal's best sexologists, Sel has featured in magazines and on platforms including 9Honey, ABC and Adore Beauty

Sel had the privilege of being interviewed by ABC for their groundbreaking feature on non-monogamy. In this Compass episode, the series covers some of the realities of non-monogamy including the journey, the joy and the heartbreak, the stigma and the love. You can also read about it further here.

A fun and delightful conversation with Cosmopolitan Australia about the in's and out's of rimming. Curious?

What a way to celebrated Mardi Gras 2025. I got to work with Durex Australia to discuss their most recent findings for the Australia Sex Survey at Pedestrian. Turns out we're all a little freaky.

Off the back of my recent collaboration with Adore Beauty and Sunroom, I chatted with Adore's Beauty IQ team about all things pleasure. This includes what gets in our way, Communication 101, self-pleasure and the intergenerational gaps I see in session. A brilliant and in-depth conversation.

I once again got to chat with Adore's Beauty IQ team about all things pleasure and revisit our beautiful creation, The Pleasure Space. We cover so much from desire discrepancy, partnered sex and you know it - pleasure.

I love the team over at Fashion Journal. Here we spoke about the current and rising trend in praise kinks, the psychology behind it and how you can integrate them in and outside of the bedroom. Read it if you want to be a good girl for me.

Here’s how to get out of a sex rut
I caught up with Fashion Journal about what a sex rut can mean, why we need to normalise them and gave starting points for how to find your way out of them.

Struggling to orgasm is a lot more common than we might think. I spoke with Fashion Journal in this piece about why we might struggle, the lasting impacts of sexual trauma and how the practice of mindfulness can be a game-changer.

I spoke with Fashion Journal about the common reasons why we may feel anxious during sex and broke down steps on how we can practice being more assertive. Such an important conversation.

As a relationship therapist, I have a love/hate relationship with love languages. In this chat, I speak with Fashion Journal about what it can mean and how to approach conversations about being on different pages with it.

A very special piece about exploring sex and pleasure post-sexual trauma that I had the pleasure of contributing to with Fashion Journal.

For Pride Month, I chatted with 9Honey to unpack the pervasive myths around queerness and the struggles of the queer community. I absolutely loved this chat and we're only just scratching the surface.
