Sel had the privilege of being interviewed by ABC for their groundbreaking feature on non-monogamy. In this Compass episode, the series covers some of the realities of non-monogamy including the journey, the joy and the heartbreak, the stigma and the love. You can also read about it further here.

A fun and delightful conversation with Cosmopolitan Australia about the in's and out's of rimming. Curious?

What a way to celebrated Mardi Gras 2025. I got to work with Durex Australia to discuss their most recent findings for the Australia Sex Survey at Pedestrian. Turns out we're all a little freaky.

I got to chat with fellow sexologist, Jassy and give her the low-down on open relationships including what they are, the array of different non-monog structures and the naturemodern relationships. Give it a whirl.

Off the back of my recent collaboration with Adore Beauty and Sunroom, I chatted with Adore's Beauty IQ team about all things pleasure. This includes what gets in our way, Communication 101, self-pleasure and the intergenerational gaps I see in session. A brilliant and in-depth conversation. 

A great conversation with Body+Soul about group sex and aftercare. Everything that goes up must come down. 

I once again got to chat with Adore's Beauty IQ team about all things pleasure and revisit our beautiful creation, The Pleasure Space. We cover so much from desire discrepancy, partnered sex and you know it - pleasure. 

I got to chat with Kylie about one of my favourite topics. We talk about the rise of non-monogamy, the common misconceptions and pitfalls. Give it a listen.

I love the team over at Fashion Journal. Here we spoke about the current and rising trend in praise kinks, the psychology behind it and how you can integrate them in and outside of the bedroom. Read it if you want to be a good girl for me.

I checked in with Fashion Journal about the connection between socks and orgasms. How I love the human body.

I unpacked with News this recent research finding that coupled-up folks tend to report more satisfaction with their sex lives and why this may be the case. 

A great interview with Fashion Journal about how to navigate sexual health conversations in the casual dating game, what safer practice looks like and why we all need to destigmatise STIs.

I caught up with Fashion Journal about what a sex rut can mean, why we need to normalise them and gave starting points for how to find your way out of them. 

Struggling to orgasm is a lot more common than we might think. I spoke with Fashion Journal in this piece about why we might struggle, the lasting impacts of sexual trauma and how the practice of mindfulness can be a game-changer.

I spoke with Fashion Journal about the common reasons why we may feel anxious during sex and broke down steps on how we can practice being more assertive. Such an important conversation. 

Our phones are one of the biggest barriers to intimacy in modern relationships. I spoke with Vogue Australia about how it impacts our relationships and what we can do. 

I had the pleasure of meeting fellow sexologist, Emily Duncan and we got together to chat about all the common myths and misconceptions we have to debunk our work from the importance of erections and the gender gap around desire. 

As a relationship therapist, I have a love/hate relationship with love languages. In this chat, I speak with Fashion Journal about what it can mean and how to approach conversations about being on different pages with it. 

I had the pleasure of connecting with new friends, Taylor and Emma from the Full Bloom podcast. We spoke about my journey as a a queer therapist and how my personal experiences influence my practice. We also touched on my hope for the sex therapy world and my university project on non-monogamy. Such a rich conversation between friends.

A very special piece with Refinery 29 about how ADHD can impact relationships and the communication ground rules you need to set. 

I love break-ups. They're such raw and beautiful experiences of being human. So when Mama Mia reached out for my top break-up rules, you know I couldn't resist. 

I spoke with Refinery 29 about safer nude-taking practice and how to have the dreaded conversation with your ex about deleting your nudes.

I gave a quick recommendation to Fashion Journal about how to introduce nipple play post-piercings.

I discussed with Fashion Journal what defines an age-gap relationship, the common barriers and how to get through it. Shout out to Leo Di Caprio.

I gave Fashion Journal my favourite cock ring recommendations from the beginners to the multi-functional. We love to see it. 

I had the honour of chatting with Destyn from the Rethinking Manhood podcast about how the patriarchy affects men and sex. We talk about the porn industry and I share my experiences working with male clients trying to redefine modern masculinity.

A very special piece about exploring sex and pleasure post-sexual trauma that I had the pleasure of contributing to with Fashion Journal.

A quickie with Yahoo! about why many women and vulva-owners have never had an orgasm before, the many barriers that can stand in the way and what we can do to change the stats. 

I spoke with Lizzy from Club BodyTalk about one of my favourite research topics: porn. We covered the stats, the good, the bad and the lack of quality representation. We could talk for hours.

For Pride Month, I chatted with 9Honey to unpack the pervasive myths around queerness and the struggles of the queer community. I absolutely loved this chat and we're only just scratching the surface.

I had a wonderful chat with Fashion Journal about what makes audio erotica so exciting compared to traditional visual porn. I also gave my hot tips on how to incorporate sensory play into your sexual repertoire.