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SERVICES AND FAQ'S

SERVICES

RELATIONSHIP AND COUPLES THERAPY

I work with all kinds of relationships to unpack a range of common concerns such as communication, conflict and intimacy.

SEX THERAPY AND EDUCATION

No topic is off limits. I support folks learning how to be better sexual partners and this includes sexual desire, sexual function, communication, and dating.

CONTENT CREATION AND CONSULTATION

A lover of writing, I create curated relationship and sex education content. I also collaborate with media and organisations, and offer project consultation.

WORKSHOPS AND EVENTS

Co-founder of the queer event organisation Love Club, I host regular events centring queer, non-monogamous and kinky communities.

What is Relationship & Sex Therapy?

Relationship and sex therapy are specialist and integrative forms of counselling that focus on sexuality, sexual function and relationships. It aims to provide clients with the knowledge, tools and confidence to improve their relationships and sexual experiences. No referral is needed and you can start right here.

Common topics explored in relationship therapy include:

  • Relationship dynamics and conflict 

  • Building new relationship patterns

  • How to have the vulnerable conversations

  • Expanding communication skills

  • Increasing intimacy, trust and connection

  • Feeling stuck in the Roommate Phase

  • Desire discrepancy

  • Non-monogamy

  • Exploring changes in relational and sexual needs

  • Building friendships and community

  • Infidelity and breaches in relationship agreements

  • Adjusting to change and life transitions

  • Family and parenting issues

  • Break-ups, separation and divorce

Common topics explored in sex therapy include: 

  • Lack of desire or arousal

  • Orgasm or ejaculation difficulties

  • Difficulty attaining or maintaining erections

  • Sexual anxiety, avoidance or shame

  • Sexual pain

  • Dating coaching

  • Connection to self and body

  • Expanding sexual scripts and communication

  • Building sexual confidence

  • Identifying and asserting sexual needs

  • Exploring sexual, kink or gender identity

  • The impacts of neurodivergence on sex

  • Porn use

  • Making the most of your sexual function

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 Frequently Asked Questions 

What's your hourly rate or cost per session?

Session cost is $180 for individual sessions and $280 for partnered sessions. Prices include GST.

Individual sessions are 50-60 mins.
Relationship therapy sessions are 70-75 mins.

What can I expect from

a first session?

We always go at your pace and what feels comfortable to you. First sessions generally include a broad discussion of what's brought you in and a history taking of relevant information for example medical, behavioural, relational, and sexual.

Do you accept Medicare or Private Health Insurance?

Unfortunately not. Relationship and sex counselling are not recognised by Medicare or covered by mental health treatment plans. At this point in time, I do not offer private health insurance rebates. 

Do you have any weekend availabilities?

 

Not at the moment. However I offer a range of times throughout the work week. Feel free to contact me if you have non-negotiable requirements and let's see what we can do.

"Put simply, Selina has changed my life. For the last 20 years I have struggled with intense guilt, shame and trauma around my sexuality that has made it difficult for me to enjoy and connect with sexual experiences.

 

By directly challenging my pre-existing views while still holding space and offering genuine compassion and kindness, all underpinned by a deep and holistic understanding of sex and sexuality, she has helped me rediscover and accept myself in a way I never thought possible. Thank you, Selina."

— Client (cis man, aged 30-40)

We acknowledge the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia, and pays respect to the First Nations People and their elders, past, present and emerging. We also honour the lives of all lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer, trans and intersex people that have paved the way before us and celebrate the extraordinary diversity of people's bodies, genders, sexualities and relationships that they represent.

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