I'm Selina Nguyen (she/they) and I'm a clinical sex and relationship therapist and founder of Come Back to Bed. Come Back to Bed is a therapy practice offering sessions in Marrickville, Sydney and across Australia and worldwide (exceptions of US and Canada).

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I've spent years studying the science and the art of good relationships and good sex. I work with folks from many different walks of life, yet all who feel stuck in their relationship, their bodies or sex lives in some way and often wondering "how did we even get here?" or "is it even possible to work through this?". This ranges from folks new in their therapy journey, folks who have just never found the right fit, and folks who have been doing therapy for years but haven't had the space to talk about sex.

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I invite you into conversations that are a soft blend of theory and practical where we might dive deep into what intimacy means for you at this stage in your life, but also what does it actually mean to be in your body or to feel your feelings. Alongside my formal degrees, I also get to playfully interweave my approach with my further trainings in the worlds of disability, non-monogamy, relational somatics and tantric massage. 

 

Anchored in queer and somatic theories, I reflect back where I see you getting stuck and offer other paths through education, pleasure and connection. I aim to be transparent in all that I do and I work from a relational, pleasure-centric and non-pathologising approach. The lenses through which I see the world and my practice is influenced by being Asian-Australian, queer, feminist and a cisgender woman living without disability.

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I believe in the healing power of connection, and the need for us to learn how to be good romantic and sexual partners, whether that be learning how to navigate vulnerable conversations, creating new patterns, getting out of our heads, prioritising our sexual selves and more. ​​​​